Reflection Brings Rejuvenation

Posted By: Dana Schon, Ed.D. Mentoring Matters, Elementary Principals, ML/Sec Principals,

(Claude.ai supported summary)

Gain insight regarding three key lessons to put into practice next year. Principal Christopher Bailey discusses what his first year as principal taught him in this article from Principal Magazine.

Seeking to Understand Perspective

  • After his first year as principal, Bailey recognized that people form opinions about his work based on varied — and sometimes filtered — perspectives.
  • He caught himself dismissing negative feedback and had to consciously change that habit.
  • His biggest takeaway: listen to understand, not to respond — ignoring criticism creates blind spots that ultimately hurt students.

Becoming a Better Leader

He identified three ways to invest in his own growth over the summer:

  • Re-reading a book — revisiting Simon Sinek's The Infinite Game with a fresh lens after a year of experience.
  • Weekly coffee with a mentor — uninterrupted conversations to discuss leadership challenges and competing priorities.
  • Attending a professional conference — Bailey mentions a national conference, AND I would promote the SAI Annual Conference to reconnect with colleagues and thought leaders.

Protecting Mental Health

  • Educators absorb the emotional weight of students' trauma, anxiety, and struggles daily, often neglecting their own wellbeing.
  • Bailey adopted small mindfulness habits — pausing to breathe before difficult conversations and before leaving for home.
  • He emphasized that leaders cannot be "all things to all people" and must prioritize their own needs alongside those of their campus and district.

Overall Message: The principalship is demanding but deeply rewarding. Summer is an ideal time to slow down, reflect, invest in personal growth, and recharge before the next school year.

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In your mentoring partnership: Discuss the key insights you’re each taking away from this 2025-26 school year, how you plan to improve your leadership this summer (keep in mind SAI learning events), and how you’ll recharge this summer.